I have invitations from Emory, Columbia, University of Pittsburgh and Brown.
Here are the logistics, though- if I go to any of these places, there is at best a 50% chance that A will be able to get a fellowship there the following year. (Surgery fellowships are far more competitive.) Even if he does, chances of my then finding a waiver job in the same area are also 50-50, at best. We are looking at a minimum 1 year separation, at maximum 3 years.
So, I'll likely take on a faculty job here in the department. Its a relatively small university-affiliated community program. They are rather desperate for new faculty. I'll get a university physician job, slightly lesser pay than elsewhere, a chance to continue in research and build my resume. Also a LOT of work shuffling between 3 hospitals, but work is good for the soul. A and I will get to stay together, and he will pick the vascular surgery fellowship here next year. It isn't his first choice either.